Create the Marriage Of Your Dreams

Therapy Helping Individuals and Couples Reconnect

Based in Wylie and Available Online throughout Texas

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You feel so disconnected.

You remember how things were at the beginning of your relationship.

Every morning, you’d wake up excited and eager to spend time together.

But these days, TikTok and Instagram see more of your partner than you do.

Distrust has formed.

Your once-loving home has slowly turned into a war zone.

Fights barely have a chance to finish before the next one starts, and there’s never any resolution.

It feels like you’re working against each other and can no longer see one another’s perspective.

You’re in pain.

And you don’t know how much more you can take.

You’re wounded, bleeding out, and there doesn’t seem to be any way to stem the tide.

Can’t he see how I’m struggling? Your marriage is unraveling, and you don’t know what to do.

You’ve reached a crossroads.

Stay or go? Keep fighting or just give up? All your tears and angry demands have been ignored.

Walking away feels easier and safer, but deep down, you’re not ready to give up. You want to fight.

But what if it doesn’t work? Nothing else has, and you’re not sure you can take another disappointment.

It feels like it’s all up to you.

Change starts with taking one step forward away from where you are and closer to where you want to be.

One step. Then another. And another. But, sometimes, you wonder, “Why am I the one who has to change?”

But that’s not important. When you change, your relationship shifts, and that’s what matters most.

Take the next step.

Change is scary. There are so many unknowns, and those uncertainties can keep you frozen.

I’ll walk with you and help you clearly define the marriage you want – connected, caring, and safe.

It’s time to take steps that will make your partner sit up and take notice. And I can help!

Hi, I’m Debbie (AKA Master Changemaker).

Bold statement?

Not really.

For over 30 years, I’ve been helping individuals and couples create a roadmap to success.

I’m living proof that this process works. My own journey through a shattered marriage, divorce, and ultimate re-marriage wasn’t easy, but it was so worthwhile.

Together, let’s identify the barriers keeping you from truly connecting. We’ll then give you concrete, actionable steps to remove those barriers and steadily move you toward your dream relationship.

If, along the way, your marriage doesn’t survive (because let’s face it – that happens), you still will. And the tools you develop aren’t just for saving your marriage. Once you have them, they’re yours to use whenever healing, forgiveness, and restoration are needed.

I’ll be with you every step of the way to support, encourage, and guide you.

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Services

Individual Therapy

Couples Therapy

Relationship Therapy for One

Divorce Recovery

I’m ready when you are.

Don’t wait any longer to create the life and relationship you deserve.

Call me now, and let’s talk about how therapy can help you and your relationship thrive.

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Let’s design the life God wants for you.

Who are you?

Imagine seeing your worth through the lens of a loving and merciful God, instead of being defined by bad choices.

Who do you listen to?

When God directs your path, you’re no longer yanked around by the whims and wishes of others.

Who listens to you?

Words matter. Learn to talk and listen in a way that will build strong connections.

Who will you become?

The woman you are right now, isn’t who you have to be. Heal past wounds, overcome damaging emotions, and embrace the future God has planned for you!

Lexie

I completely received a switch and adjustment in negative mindset and perspective. I have always been a “realist” or so I thought as well as a people pleasing perfectionist. It wasn’t until working with Debbie did I realize how hard and critical on myself and others I really was. She allowed me to realize I constantly put others first and then criticize myself for not being enough for everyone. She definitely help me realize faulty beliefs and concepts.

I feel like the biggest change I have made is in adjusting my own thoughts and feelings daily. Everyone struggles, everyone has a lot going on and can let emotions build. But by reframing those thoughts I am taking control and letting God control my outlook on life instead of my emotions control me.

Jackie

Hello Debbie, I wanted to thank you. I am a success story! I was in a very dark place when I started with you and working with you helped me immensely. I’ve been on a positive up swing ever since. One of the things I was struggling with was my house full of my parents’ belongings and my late father’s room that was so full I couldn’t get another thing into it. Well I did it! I cleared out my house, had the entire inside painted and multiple repairs, then my friend staged it and it’s up for sale! I’m completely debt free! I am the happiest I’ve ever been and my mental health is stable. Once again, thank you for coming into my life when I was in a pit of doom and helping me find the light at the end of the tunnel.

Rachel

Debbie is very in tune with what I needed during our sessions. As we got to know each other, I felt she individualized what my priorities and goals were while giving me so many tangible tools and methods to move forward. I have started changing the way I react to difficult situations and conversations.

My relationship with my husband has improved significantly and I’m more level headed when things make me upset.

Lisa

I cannot say enough about how my life has changed. Debbie allowed me to understand that my emotions may never really go away but my ability to lessen, or help or challenge the thoughts in those moments becomes easier over time the more I work on them.

Kelly

Debbie assisted me with a set of TRULY life-changing personal and professional decisions. I believe her skills were crucial in providing a perspective and approach I would not have achieved independently. She proved to be amazingly adaptable in providing the level of input I needed throughout the process. Her professional and personal experiences have equipped her to affect real change with responsibility and discernment. One of the most helpful aspects of the process for me was Debbie’s use of assessments to assist in understanding my personality. My investment with Debbie has resulted in a better life for me and those around me. My life, my relationships, and my future have all been improved and redefined by my work with her.

Cindy

Debbie is wonderful! She has helped me learn to find myself. I have learned how to become a better listener and to be able to communicate better with my loved ones. I was a very controlling person and I have learned to be able to “control” myself instead of trying to control every situation. Her insight is unbelievable. She makes so much sense. Just her knowledge and insight have helped me a lot. I have been able to better handle situations. I still have work to do, but I am working on moving on from a toxic marriage.

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